The Earth Angels Who Are Only Lent to Us
We’ve all experienced loss—losing someone we love too soon—and the phrase "only the good die young" rings painfully true. Our soul cries out, and we mourn a reality that simply feels unfair. Yet, as I’ve learned through my own grief, sometimes the purest souls are only lent to us for a short time. They are what I call Earth Angels . I believe Earth Angels are vessels of God, placed on this Earth for a reason. They carry a light that shines so intensely, it has an immediate an
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The Good Person Chair: The Foundation of UnSettled Living
We all grew up with different styles of discipline. My mother’s approach was swift: a quick correction, a paddle, and the lesson was learned instantly. My father, however, favored the slow burn. He liked to process the offense, write down his thoughts, and then invite me to his office days later for a "little chat." Knowing there was no such thing as a little chat, my sister and I would make ourselves comfortable in what we affectionately dubbed “The Good Person Chair.” I spe
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the tiny bikini and the war within: confessions of a recovering perfectionist
Spring in Florida: sunshine, blooming flowers, the irresistible pull of the beach. But for so many of us women, that beautiful season comes with a familiar dread: swimsuit anxiety. In a world saturated with filters, Botox, and the illusion of flawless perfection peddled by social media and AI, feeling ‘enough’ in our own skin can feel like an impossible battle. You might look at me – someone who’s seemingly confident, works out religiously, and watches what I eat – and assume
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why choosing ‘unsettled’ is the best decision i ever made:
I get asked all the time: Why UnSettled? The answer is simple: Because so many of us live in a comfortable, predictable bubble. We settle. We convince ourselves that “good enough” is good enough. But when you settle into your ways—when you stop pushing—you stop growing. UnSettled isn’t about being unhappy or discontent; it’s about intentionally leaving the comfortable to learn, to grow, and to truly live. It’s about recognizing that growth happens only when you are slightly
Jan 163 min read
